The dynamics of the male and female psyche are vast. I get tired of boys saying, "I didn't ask you to buy that, you didn't have to have sex with me, etc" in order to prove that they aren't using a woman. News Flash: THAT'S USING! If you bring NOTHING to the table BUT sex you are essentially a prostitute. Let's look at this.
A boy talks to a girl, makes it seem like he genuinely likes her (which may or may not be true), on top of that they're probably having sex. Let's face it. The food she buys you, the rides you get (figuratively and literally), and any other perks you get is because she likes you. Boys know that. Women naturally give especially when it's something they care for and possibly love. I don't understand how boys take all this stuff from women, still feel like they have their manhood, and then end it because she was "attached." It doesn't matter if you told her what it was from jump. YOU knew what it was from jump. You knew she was only fucking with you because she thinks a relationship was gonna come of it so why even pursue her? Why accept the gifts? Why continue to have sex? Why make her feel like she's #1? Because she's giving you what you want and need and to me that's using. Boys always say, "I told her from jump" but aren't you just as guilty because she also told you from jump how she felt? Emotions have to be the hardest thing to control and emotions always have you doing the craziest stuff. It makes you blind. Especially when you're dealing with a female. Not only that but most of these boys are lying. They don't tell her from jump and if they do it's definately not how they make it seem. There's usually always a statement with opportunity that's used. (ex: I'm not tying to get in a relationship but we can see where this goes. It's possible) <-- that doesnt count as telling her from jump. That's leading her on. That's one of those common sense statements. People don't instantly fall in love or become boyfriend girlfriend. So is it taking advantage of someone or someone being overly generous? It can be a combination of both but that's why I used the word boy because men aren't in these situations. They take care of the girl. That's how you know who is genuine. They take care of you. Not you take care of them.
Ps: i know there are some cases where them girls are dumb enough to put up with it but most of these girls ain't crazy like these boys make them seem. They giving them a sense of false hope and we all know it.
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